divorce recovery

  • How to Exorcise the Losers

    My sleep paralysis demon is a mediocre man with poor hygiene whispering, “I’m not ready for a relationship.” The man whose ex-wife was still living with him – for the kids, we’re just roommates. The man who conveniently kept the relationship undefined and avoided introducing me to his friends so he could keep his options…

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  • The victim mindset says: I am Tantalus beneath the fruit tree, hungry, and unable to reach it. I am Tantalus, thirsty, floundering in a pool of water that cannot be drunk. I drive 50 miles to my therapist’s office every other week. We are a year into forming a patient/clinician relationship and working through what…

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